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  "Grief is not a disorder, a disease, or a sign of weakness.
  It is an emotional, physical, and spiritual necessity, the price you pay for love."[Grollman]

 
                           Laura's Message Index 8

  

        

     Difficult mother-in-law[John D]

     I loved him but did not show it.
     What is going on?
    A poem to share
      (warning: this is a 3-hankie poem)


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    Thoughts about 9/11/2001
    and WTC from our  visitors.

    Comforting books for children.
   

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   Yes, I do appreciate thank you notes
    and learning how things turned out.
   
~ Laura

    



Working on: Visions of an angel

I need her so much[HH]
A reader's reply for HH.
For SS: Thanks[HH]


Some very bad dreams[SGS]

A reader's reply for SGS.
An update from SGS.
For Helen[SGS]

Help me communicate[Adrienne]
My life is collapsing[MOB]

What ... can I do?[Janet]
A child lost to suicide.
I should have known[RS]
A reply from RS.
Please help if you can[Gail]

What do I do?[Enigma]
I lost my mom[Tawny]
This is hard for me to describe.

Why me?[Guinevere]
Wants daughter to be secure[KW]
Did he make it to heaven?[Patricia]

Thinking of a lost love[Elizabeth]
Was it an angel?[Elizabeth]
 

Extremely concerned for her.
Good news! an update from "concerned"
How do I talk to my mom?[Luis]

Facing the future without him[DR]

I work at a hotline[Jennifer] Sept. 13, 2001
What to tell my son?[Just Me]
Child obssessed by thoughts[Donna]
A thank you from Donna.
My grandfather told me I was worthless.

Did he die loving me?
Kindly advise[Anand]
His mistress, not his wife.
Why do I feel so lost?[Sarah]
A thank you from Sarah.
Too young to be a widow.
He didn't even say goodbye[BR]

This is going to sound crazy.

Why did God take my nana away?[Tish]
An update from Trish's mom.

I miss him terribly.

How can I accept this relationship?
Please help me[SPG]
I feel responsible for his death.
More doubts[SPG]

    

          
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  Laura's Suggested Reading

 
    When Bad Things Happen to Good People, Kushner
    Good Grief, Westberg
    Hope for the Flowers, Trina Paulus
    Esperanza Para Las Flores: Hope for the Flowers, Paulus
    Losing Your Parents, Finding Youself [Secunda]
    Healing Children's Grief, G. Christ
    Widowed, J. Brothers
    Changing Places, J. Kramer 
    Guiding Your Child through Grief, Emswiler
    go directly to the Religion & Spirituality section at amazon.com    
    When Men Grieve, Levang
   Empty Arms: Coping after Miscarriage..., Ilse  
    Living When a Loved One Has Died, Grollman 
    Necessary Losses, Viorst
    Sad Isn't Bad, Mundy and Alley NEW
    How to Say It to Your Kids, Coleman NEW
    Where the Balloons Go, Coleman NEW
 
  
Living a Life That Matters, Kushner NEW and Recommended
   Crossing the Rainbow Bridge, Hutchins

    Music by Jim Brickman  
                 ~ Jewel
                 ~ Loreena McKennitt
                 ~ Celine Dion
                 ~ David Lanz
                 ~ Savage Garden ("I Knew I Loved You")
                 ~ Sarah Brightman
                 ~ Enya
                 ~ Charlotte Church
                 ~ Sarah McLachlan
      

 
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